Scope
This club is oral only. There is no penetration of any kind, ever.
Attendees are expected to participate and to be nude.
This is a private club for adult men. You must be 21 or older to continue.
A private monthly gathering for men in the Richmond area, built on discretion, respect, and consent.
Request an invitationRiver City Swallows meets once a month at a local hotel. The room number is shared with approved members about an hour before the start time. Every member is vetted, and every encounter is by mutual choice.
Dues cover the space and supplies. Nothing else is for sale, and nothing is expected of anyone.
Send a short note introducing yourself. A referral from a current member is preferred.
Every member signs the code of conduct and a confidentiality agreement.
Photo ID is checked privately at your first gathering and never copied or kept.
These rules protect every man in the room. Breaking one means you will be asked to leave, and your membership may be ended.
This club is oral only. There is no penetration of any kind, ever.
Attendees are expected to participate and to be nude.
Ask before you touch. Only a clear yes means yes. Silence, hesitation, or a turned shoulder is a no.
Anyone can stop at any time for any reason, and a no is accepted gracefully the first time.
No pressure, no persistence after a no, and no comments on anyone's body, age, race, or type.
Phones go in the bag provided for your clothing at check-in. No photos, video, or recordings of any kind.
Never name, identify, or discuss another member outside the club, including online.
No drugs on site. Arrive sober. The host will turn away anyone who appears impaired, because impaired people can't give real consent.
Test regularly, including a throat swab. Stay home if you have symptoms or are being treated for an infection.
Condoms, mouthwash, and hygiene supplies are provided at every gathering.
Arrive freshly showered. Use the towels and supplies provided, and leave the space as clean as you found it.
Arrive within the posted window and leave quietly.
A host is on duty at every gathering. If something feels wrong, tell the host. Their decisions are final.
All members must be 21 or older. Dues pay only for the venue and supplies.
Email us with your first name, age, the area you live in, and the name of the member who referred you, if any. A host will reply within a week.
rivercityswallows@protonmail.com